“I participated in an Ambassador Program on behalf of Mom Central Consulting for Anheuser-Busch’s Family Talk About Drinking program. I received a promotional item to thank me for my participation.”
In my opinion, being a parent can be one of the toughest jobs. I am a mother of four children and there are many days of the month or even week that can be full of chaos where I want to pull my hair out. I am also one of Anheusar-Bush’s “Family Talk About Drinking” Ambassadors with information to share about talking to your teens about drinking.
Of my four children, my two oldest are my daughters that are teens in high school. With having children in high school comes a whole new world of problems that can be stressful to not only your children but to parents as well. Not only will you have to make your that your child is keeping up with their grades in their classes because we know if they want to look well for college, they need to have good grades, there is the social aspect of high school. No matter what crowd of friends your child hangs out with, there are always risks that you need to try to be prepared for.
My oldest daughter just had junior prom this past weekend. While many of the kids at her school went to parties after the dance, my daughter chose to come home instead of even trying to go out. For days before the dance she talked with her sister about all the different parties that were supposed to be happening. Luckily my husband and I have explained on multiple occasions what can happen at parties. Luckily my daughter isn’t so much of a risk taker, she didn’t even ask to go out and was happy to grab some good food with mom when I picked her up.
This was just one night I was lucky with though. There are many more I will have to face with just her. My second oldest is a freshman that also loves to dress up and go to dances and hang out with her friends. As a mom of four children, I definitely have my hands full!
The first step in talking to our kids about drinking doesn’t involve our kids at all. Instead, it’s about sitting ourselves down and asking ourselves some tough questions. Here are some questions you might want to ask yourself:
- What do we really think about alcohol and underage drinking?
- What rules do we want to communicate? Are we prepared to back up our advice with
- our own actions?
- When it comes to conversations with our kids, what are we really trying to achieve?
- Are we trying to protect our kids from the world, or are we trying to give them the skills
- they need to make smart decisions?
Did you realize there are three different stages of parenting with each stage having a very important impact on your child’s future.
Three Stages Of Parenting
- Teacher (ages 1-7)
- Facilitator (ages 8-13)
- Coach (14-21+)
Although all of these stages are difficult, I have found Stage 3 as one of the hardest that I have yet to deal with. For more information on each of these stages and to download the Parent Guide, visit: https://www.facebook.com/ABFamilyTalk
In addition to the FREE Parent Guide, be sure to visit the Anheuser-Busch website for helpful information on talking with your teens about drinking…























